Friends That Make You Go, "Hmmmmm."

So I have a couple friends dealing with two very different types of addiction. Both have made me stop and step back and really look at things.

Not gonna use names here.

Friend #1 has for quite a few years now has been dealing with alcohol. While in the past he would admit to having some troubles with it, would not really face up to it. He has a family now, a wife and two kids, and a house. Now he has really decided to tackle his problem, the problem is I'm afraid it's going to make things worse for him. Treatment, facilities, medication, it's all costing him money. Money that should be going to bills, and things for his kids. I hear the frustration in his voice when we talk on the phone. I really hope he keeps it all together. I am glad he's finally getting some help, I just hope it doesn't break him and his family.

Friend #2 has decided to break the electronic addiction. He realized he spent more time reading emails, newsgroups, Facebook, Twitter, message boards, etc. than he did in real life. He has set himself up with a two hour period where he will check and reply email and that's it. He will not answer the phone, closed his Facebook account and pretty much is going cold turkey from all tings e or i. Sounds drastic, but I think he'll be just fine.

Both friends have made me step back and examine myself.

Long ago I got into trouble while drunk and the Army put me through their version of AA. So in regards to alcohol I'm very mindful of where that can take me and have really watched myself. I'm confident I have control over that aspect of my life.

My virtual life? Well to be honest I really don't think I'm that bad. I really don't spend a whole lot of time online. Most of my time is during down time at work. At home I really am not online that much. My computer may be logged in 24/7, but not me. I do admit I may play too many video games, but with a new purchase of a vehicle to get around with will change that. Now I can get out and get around when I want to where I want. No more dependence on a bus system that most times seems hit or miss. Not to mention 2hour bus rides for a trip that takes 30 minutes by car.

I wish both my friend the best of luck on their new paths to bettering themselves.